Relatibility is a Skill

Yours truly at a library. Photo credit: Maura B. McConnell Photography. Keep your slides simple!

There are two things you need as a chocolate educator: subject matter expertise and relatability.

If you’re drawn to chocolate, learning about the topic is easy. You taste a lot of chocolate and sign up for classes. You talk to chocolate-makers and attend chocolate festivals. One day, you’ll wake up and realize how much you know. Congratulations, you’re now a chocolate expert!

But if you want to pass that knowledge to a wider audience, building subject matter expertise isn’t enough — you also need to be relatable.

Relatability isn’t always recognized as a skill. But when your job is to get people excited about your work, you have to package your knowledge into relevant content. You need to edit your talks and make them more interesting than the phone in an attendee’s pocket. After all, the goal of a one-hour talk or 90-minute tasting is to spark curiosity, not turn the audience into scholars. So, how do you stretch that relatability muscle?

In Week 1 of the Chocolate Educator Workshop, I encourage attendees to sign up for a class on a topic they’re curious about, but not passionate about, such as a wine education or coffee cupping class. Tip: You can browse for events on the Eventbrite platform.

Next, pay attention to your experience. Did the speaker grab their attention? If so, how? Were there cool stories, videos, or props to keep you engaged? Be mindful of your experience and take notes. Ideally, you’ll repeat this quarterly throughout your career. This is important because as your knowledge grows, so will the gap between you and your audience.

Leading a chocolate tasting shouldn’t involve a lengthy monologue about “our passion”. Rather, it’s an opportunity to connect with our audience and get people excited about a surprisingly mysterious food. And that requires us to be relatable.

Yes, you should continue learning about your field. But as your knowledge grows, remember to stretch that relatability muscle too.

The Craft Chocolate Lover’s Guide to Paris

After years of tasting, interviewing, and writing, I’m THRILLED to introduce you to The Craft Chocolate-Lover’s Guide to Paris.

I wrote it specifically for bean-to-bar enthusiasts who want to experience Paris through the lens of craft chocolate. It’s hosted on the Saltete platform, which interfaces with Google, which means you can:

  • Explore suggested chocolate itineraries right on Google Maps
  • Find the nearest featured shop by clicking “See what’s near me.”

You’ll find:

  • 118 hand-picked addresses, including a comprehensive list of bean-to-bar makers in Paris and the surrounding areas. Also, my absolute favorite Parisian specialty coffee shop!
  • Detailed introductions for each chocolate company, including the name of the couverture suppliers for chocolatiers
  • Recommended products at each spot (chocolate sorbet, anyone?)
  • Four different itineraries
  • An FAQ with recommendations on the best times to travel and tips on navigating public transportation

It’s a personal guide to my favorite spots in the city. If you haven’t been to Paris yet, my tips will save hours of research. This means one thing: more time exploring the modern Parisian chocolate scene!

The guide has already been out for a couple of months, and I’m thrilled by the response so far. Here are some testimonials from early readers.

Reader Testimonials and Accolades

“The guide has the amazing gift of being written like it’s your very own personal guide to what you want to explore of Paris chocolate, whether it’s your first or 15th visit. It’s really something special.”

– Lauren

Chocolate sorbet at Plaq

“Hello Estelle, I used your Paris Chocolate Guide to plan my trip. I just got back home and wanted to say thank you again! I went to a few chocolate shops right away after check-in. I went to Dengo, Chapon, Jean-Paul Hevin, and oh my, that chocolate mousse from Chapon was amazing! They had a few flavors to choose from, even one for Christmas (I forgot the flavor), but I said no, I wanted to try the 100% Venezuelan chocolate recommended by you, that’s really amazing! Also, the hot chocolate from Dengo was the best. That was the first cup of hot chocolate I had in Paris, and it set the bar quite high, and that’s my favorite of the trip. I also chatted with the lovely lady at Dengo and shared with her how I found out about them through you. I also visited Jean-Paul Hevin, Rrraw, and PLAQ. They were all lovely. Thanks to you, I saved time on finding where to go for chocolate in Paris, and I have a very pleasant experience!”

– Mandy

Drinking wild Bolivian chocolate at Plein Coeur, a best-kept secret in Paris

For a deeper dive on the guide, check out Paris’s Best Chocolate Shops, Mapped in a New Digital Guide, the story that Anna Mindess’s wrote for The Chocolate Professor website.

I can’t wait to see how YOU will use the guide. Happy planning!